By Beatrice Sithole Email: sbeatrice033@gmail.com

It’s been said that failure isn’t failure until you accept it as such.  We all know of some people who have tried many ventures in life and failed – however through persistence they have gone on to reap the fruits of their sweat and have become giants in life.  
There are many things in life that you cannot control, but you can always control your attitude towards them.  Defeat is never permanent unless you allow it to be so.  When you have a positive attitude you can never give up on your dreams.
Whatever you do in life – do not let negative thoughts or other people discourage you from fulfilling your dreams.  After you have tried something and have failed ask yourself: What could I have done differently that would have altered the outcome?  What can I do in future to minimize problems and mistakes?  What did I learn from this experience that I can put to good use next time?  If you approach obstacles and setbacks with a positive attitude, you will be surprised how quickly you can turn defeat into victory.
Each day as you begin the day think positive thoughts about the things that you want to do.  Do not allow other people or past failures define your life.  Make it your mission to determine what it is you want to do.  If you have a desire to do something, the desire alone predetermines your capability to succeed at it.  Never let your mind dwell on your past failures as that can hinder you from reaching your greater heights in life.
Persistence is the key to positive outcomes.  You may not be able, at first, to achieve but if you persevere with a good mental attitude  – you are bound to succeed in whatever you set your mind to do.  Always remember that your mental attitude determines your destination in life.